ARE YOU SEARCHING FOR THAT MISSION PIECE TO GETTING FASTER LASTING RESULTS AS A COACH OF WOMEN?
Are these the kind of deep breakthroughs you want to facilitate for women? Watch the video and witness everyday women empowering others and experiencing their own personal blockages being released at our course.
Counselling and Similar Courses Can’t Deliver These Results this FAST or that LAST like Creatrix® does.
Creatrix® is SO thorough we back the outcome with a money back guarantee. That’s a bold statement right there and we stand behind it!
Where else will you find a course offering:-
1. LASTING Change to WOMEN
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2. Give You FAST-Working Tools That Actually Cause REAL Change for WOMEN.
Female Brains are Different and are not even factored in to other therapies/modalities!
3. Will Strip You Out of YOUR Success Blocks as Well as train you to be a Creatrix® Facilitator and Woman’s Transformologist®.
4.Be Able to Offer Your Clients a MONEY BACK Guarantee.
But you obviously want to help people so
You’re in the right place if any of these sounds like you:-
“I really want to help women turn their lives around and feel good about themselves”
“I relate to women who are struggling because I was once and I now want to help others to do the same..”
“I love inspiring women and like working with them”
“I just feel it’s what I’m meant to do…”
“I’ve got too many blocks to help others so I need tools that work for others but also that will work on me too”
“I already help women but my tools are not working fast enough or working long term” ….and check out this one
“I’ve done it all and still I’m stuck and I feel something is missing for women, but I don’t know what it is” etc
The truth is ladies, it was always going to take a woman to discover that missing link and create a process that works for WOMEN. After all, how, could a male fathom what it’s like to be in such an emotional, hormonal and cyclic body? Most women think the way to do that is to become a Life Coach, Therapist or a Practitioner or something similar. Although they help to some degree, most women are fed up with these mainstream older models not making a big enough difference, being too slow and too traumatic because they were NEVER designed with the female brain in mind, AT ALL. They want noticeable results and REAL OUTCOMES that lasts and that’s just that. Is this what you want to be able to do, perhaps on a lesser scale? AND be able to offer a full OUTCOME BASED MONEY BACK GUARANTEE?
More and more women are searching for new solutions and now you, regardless of qualifications, can become a Facilitator of the NEW alternative, Creatrix®, that is guaranteed to work for women and comes with a money back guarantee.
The usual methodologies are NOT ENOUGH for women. They, do nothing about shifting the deepest root core issues, way beneath the surface that MUST release to cause a WOMAN to finally stop the 2 steps forward 1 step back cycle.
Even at an unconscious level women are very different.
This ‘outside of our awareness’ part of ourselves, has the gender component to run as well as ‘A’ body. For example a mans unconscious mind can’t run the creation of life process (grow a body inside of itself while running one) but we can do it effortlessly without a single thought.
Our unique process called Creatrix® simply uses ‘our’ female brain and unconscious mind back on itself to ‘undo’ our deepest issues and therefore gets Longterm, Fast and aMAZing transformational results unique to WOMEN.
“MYTH: healing is a slow process”.
This untrue belief within the industry has stopped them being able to create faster more lasting solutions for decades now. I cringe when I read sabotaging comments by supposed professionals saying things like “anyone who tries to tell you healing is not a slow process is misleading you” or “PTSD will always be a major part of your life”. These are exact examples of limiting beliefs that add to the problem by adding hopelessness into the equation. We are not damaged goods. We’ve just been misled and not taught the raw, scientific truth of our design, how to navigate our own ‘hardwire’ and what’s possible given compatible software instead of conflicting software. We’ve been brain washed so deeply and this stifles innovation and evolution, especially in this area of our health. Check out our ‘before and after’ page and see for yourself what’s truly possible now for everyday women! Women ALWAYS revert backwards if you don’t totally break through the bigger deeper issues such as the low self worthiness and not feeling good enough etc and the painful hurts of the past that are the deep level reasons why a woman struggle in business as well as in life and relationships. Women have inherited a level of suppression and that’s just that. We need to strip that shit out once and for all.
The BIG reasons why traditional coaching and therapy doesn’t work for women… and what works instead
Even if you only work in the personal or professional development industry or in the positive psychology industry, with women it’s the same deep level blocks regardless.
If you wanttools and processes that work FAST and create LONG TERM results for women, you need female formulated tools specifically designed for our biologically hormonal female system,
But the only problem…
99.9% of coaching, therapy and counseling solutions assume men and women are exactly the same. But just like you can’t use Microsoft software inside a Mac computer, coaching tools do not work well enough with women who haven’t had their deep issues resolved first. We (women) need specific personal development software for our female ‘hardware’ (all that makes us female), that fits our brains and hearts which are wired differently. Become a Licensed Creatrix® Facilitator if you want to transform women deeply in a lasting way. We are the only Creatrix® Training company and Creatrix® is the only female formulated modality in existence that considers all factors from biology, psychology, brain wiring, hormones and the epigenetic components that considers all parts a WOMAN.
See for yourself the results of a Creatrix® Breakthrough in this before and after video (We have over 60 of these videos on file with the same results).
Life coaching is great because it really can help someone to not just turn their life around, but actually move forward to a better life, eventually and with lots of your time. It’s true, BUT it’s not the way to break the cycle at the deepest level where a woman usually is sabotaging herself from so that she can create lasting change. After our founder, Marylin (Maz) Schirmer became a life coach herself, and then even became a trainer in some of the modalities (methodologies and formulas) listed below, she recognised what was majorly missing for FEMALES who were using these methods.
10 Different Modalities: Why They Don’t Work on Women
NLP (fries the female brain circuitry)
Hypnosis (too unconscious for the balanced integration needed for long term change)
Life Coaching (all too conscious mind to conscious mind therefore not deep enough for lasting change)
‘Male Guru name’ Coaching (too masculine)
The (won’t say name) Method (not female brain specific)
Psychology (too many limiting beliefs in this industry to ever create a real solution that works ‘fast’ or ‘long term’ for women)
Energy Healing (the negative energy returns, it has to for you to be you if you research epi-genetics, because it’s not a deep enough shift at a genetic coding level)
Counseling (way too conscious)
CBT (male brained) and other therapies/modalities are like our (Institute of Women International) Education on the Female Factor and Processes such as Creatrix® BUT here’s why they are not:-
CREATRIX® IS A FEMALEbreakthrough Process designed in a way only a female could ever have perceived.
In fact, do your historical research like we did on the above methods available today and when you’ve wound ALL the way back to the inception and founding principles of those methods, you’ll see for yourself that a male originally perceived the theory behind them.
The question is…
….Could those male brains have had limiting beliefs blocking them from relating to our uniqueness as women or are they simply wired to be unable to fathom the FULL form of the female that blocked them in some way? The first and biggest limiting belief that blocked (and still blocks) progress for the development of women’s emotional and mental solutions, being that ALL brains and bodies are the same and that ‘THE’ unconscious mind works in ONE particular way, regardless of gender. Male and Female minds? Really guys? No one’s ever even questioned it? Until now that is… Coaching and therapies work on the outer symptomatic layers of the problem, whereas Creatrix® works on the root cause for break-through results that last and FIT the female like a glove, after all, it was designed with our uniqueness in mind.
5 Reasons Why the Creatrix® Method of Working at a DEEP Level with Women is SO Transformational
Old ‘KNOWINGS’ that were not serving (Believing you are unattractive, pathetic or destined for failure are a few examples) that kept causing thoughts and feelings to be non-productive and unsupportive are instantly swapped to NEW knowings that are productive to a positive future and mindset. New head talk is created in the background, ready for times when triggered and this is what causes the behavior change which works by reducing the ‘charge’ creating more productive solution options.
It’s an Instant shift (no waiting for results). Immediately you feel lighter and perceive differently without the ‘charge’ because you’ve let it go.
Raised level of consciousness (awareness). Can’t sweat the old trivial ‘stuff’ anymore yet important ‘small’ things can mean more. See through behavior of others and you feel this intuitively so you can start to filter who is ‘healthy’ energy to support you moving forward and not going to pull you down or backwards.
You can’t be easily misled by others because you’ve broken the cycle from possibly inherited issues not even your own.
Effects ALL areas of life at once because women have them all as one.
Here’s a real case study of ours (If Creatrix® works at this level of depth, what can’t it work on?)…. Meet Dana… Mother of 5, Medical Office Manager
8 Reasons Why Creatrix® is Unique
A Breakthrough Process that is Intricately Formulated Exclusively for FEMALE UNCONSCIOUS and CONSCIOUS MINDS.
Other Self Development and Coaching offering mindset tools and solutions, assume that the genders minds are one and the same, but that’s not true at all. For example… Just one of the well known Unconscious Mind’s jobs is to run the body. For example, a male doesn’t have to know how to grow a brain and organs inside of itself while running its own set, does it…? Do they have our innately built cyclic hormonal fluctuations to consider? NO, in fact they can’t even relate, which is why we only allow females to become facilitators.
2. ANY WOMAN who is a WOMAN (even if you come to us with your own issues because we clean you out anyway, you only need to desire to help others) can become a great Creatrix® Facilitator.
You don’t ‘teach’ anything, you facilitate a proven scripted formula that causes the client to get HER OWN life learnings. No advice or theory to study. And because we’ve cleaned you out of your limiting beliefs and own energy, you can’t interrupt or block her from receiving her life learnings as most coaches and therapists don’t even realize they do.
3. EPIGENETICS– working on the beginning at an ancestral level where women have inherited suppression and a ‘predisposition’ for their issues that is not even their fault.
4. We ‘facilitate’ you to realize your own unique business/life ‘LEARNINGS’ which is what causes the long term results, thus breaking the CYCLE. This is a KEY missing component in other modalities. What’s even more unique is where you will receive these lessons/epiphanies/new knowings from.
5. Support for Facilitators once trained– Creatrix® is FREE TO ALL Currently Licensed FACILITATORS.
6. UTILISES BOTH CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS MINDS equally so there is no inner conflict afterwards.
7. Only 6 days TOTAL training and you are ready to take clients and make money and help others!!!!!! (not endless years like most)
8. We have a code of ethical conduct license agreement to be registered because we recognize the importance of protecting clients from negative experiences so our brand remains in tact because we believe Creatrix® has a higher purpose. Let’s look at who we are often incorrectly compared to because we are an ‘institute’. We think maybe we should have branded as an UNinstitute when we compare the difference. Large LIFE-COACHING INSTITUTES, ACADEMIES and NLP Training Courses are who students often compare us to but that’s because they didn’t even know that Female Formulated Tools and Processes Existed.
There’s not a lot of ‘NEW’ content in this industry… They are STILL teaching the age old techniques such as ‘G.R.O.W’, ‘S.M.A.R.T’, ‘compartmentalise’, ‘consistency’ and NLP which all suit the male (and 1 in 5 women who process similarly but what about the 4 out of 5?) mind way of processing? How are these working for you ladies so far? They are great, if you are the 1 in 5 women or 6 out of 7 men they work well for. There’s nothing ‘logical’, ‘organised’, ‘orderly’ or ‘consistent’ for 4 out of 5 women’s minds. It’s not the fit for the female UNconscious OR conscious mind, but why should that mean she not be taught alternate ways of achieving, that don’t cause our circuits to blow out? Because no one’s recognising the mind-difference, that’s why. Hormones are REAL, they are not imagined. They affect our mind and brain and as well as that we have different balances in the brain. In fact, gender is coded into every single cell in your body, regardless of how small a percentage some claim it is, it’s 100% relevant. We discovered from these other Institutes that you get no big life changing unconscious-mind breakthrough tools until you reach approx the 4th level of training- or 2nd ‘Tier’ level of training. And even then you get ZERO Female Factor Training to account for the biological factors.
Why becoming an NLP Practitioner Doesn’t Work
We asked “What IS the difference between NLP Master Practitioner tools and the tools taught at the 4th level training for example”? We were told “It is NLP, but with (male guru name) stuff as well……………………………” The price you will pay is approx $7,500-$15,000 BEFORE you get to that level of training, and 2 years long, but you start with very cheap monthly online training.
Its rare to meet any life coach who is confident after 1 online course, even after 12 months of training because she’s not had any work done on HER in the process or practical hands on training with feedback to improve. No one seems to care who is out there helping others and I think you’d agree that we want women who’ve addressed their own ‘stuff’ working on other people with ‘stuff’. They offer after support but only mentoring or coaching, with NO breakthrough processes or deep level change work, “however they have a large database of other coaches to recommend for you to choose from”.
It’s fair enough what they are doing because it’s what they were taught, however they don’t all understand what it’s like to just want a single course that only includes the dynamic ‘life changing’ tools in it that work long term FOR WOMEN with the purpose of getting out there confidently getting results fast. Shop wisely, that’s all. We even RECOMMEND Life Coaching as something you can do AFTER you’ve done the deep work if you felt so compelled and the clients wanted more so be sure to do your homework.
Many of our facilitators came to us as Life Coaches and Practitioners of many other modalities and realised most missed the mark when it came to long lasting results for their female clients.
Some had spent more than $100,000 on their own skills and self development, only to still not feel confident.
And what about you? Are they going to ensure you have actually learned the skills properly if they don’t even meet you in person? Peoples’ lives are not to be played with. This is the serious business of changing lives and clients expect results these days. We know you’ve got many choices currently with Life Coaching being the current wave of new career choices for the past 8 years…. BUT We can’t find one that has ANYTHING at all to cater for what we do that:-
IS FOR FEMALEUNCONSCIOUS MINDS- THAT OF A CREATOR not a BUILDER type of a male.
EPIGENETICS (inherited pre-disposition for events to occur)
BRINGS THROUGH LIFE LEARNINGS as deep new knowings, so as to break the cycle.
NO AFTER CARE– OWN SERVICES FREE TO FACILITATORS, just ‘mentoring’ not actual deep level work.
It truly pays to get your facts when you are searching.
Having made our point of difference very obvious, we are fussy who we let use our processes, so if you operate outside of integrity or are just looking for a course based on the ‘cheapest will do’ then we are probably not a good fit. Your heart has to be in helping women to turn their lives around or improve the quality of their lives.
IF on the other hand you want to apply, please CLICK HEREto book a ‘compatibility’ chat and to ask your questions.
We’d love to get to know you, hear your story and possibly tool you up to make that dream of helping women become a reality. Become a registered Woman’s Breakthrough Transformologist® and Creatrix® Facilitator.
You don’t just wake up one day and you are going to change your life. It rarely happens like that. You know I’m right because at least once a week women SAY they are going to start either a new diet, a new exercise routine, or vouch to do something in a new way BUT how many times have they said that exact same thing? A penny for each one and most women would be rich by now.
Some of us get a wake up call we wouldn’t wish on anyone (I did) and so I don’t want you to sit around and wait for one of those either. So what I want to share with you is the MOST IMPORTANT STAGE to any SIGNIFICANT life change, the very one MOST people ignore.
Also you MUST start with number one and progress in the exact order of progression if you want to NEVER go backwards. The problem with most formula’s for success is they don’t spend enough energy (if any) on this PREP (pre-transformational) stage (if at all) because, well, it can make us squirm and own our ‘stuff’.
YUK, ‘why put ourselves through more pain for crying out loud’ I hear you say.
No silly, wrong attitude, its WORTH IT I PROMISE!!!!!
We rush to push aside our ‘issues’ to hurry up and get to the good bit of the journey, where it’s easy going and the rewards are plenty. WRONG!!! WRONG!!! WRONG!!!
You will see the aftermath of those who habitually restart by skipping this step in the many frustrated people around you who are doing it that way, yet expecting to get life changing results.
Its not long lasting and just like an elastic band you will likely spring back to the old bar level of how far you usually get before you spring backwards. These people can become addicted to the search of the ever-elusive short cut formula to Break through to the other side, to cross their own belief barrier or ‘bar’ to find the longterm happiness and success they seek.
We must milk this stage dry before we move to the next. No short cuts and ready to play FULL OUT.
Well here is the missing STAGE 1 you HAVE TO go through to CHANGE YOUR LIFE or ACHIEVE BEYOND YOUR HIGHEST PREVIOUS LEVEL of ACHIEVEMENT:
MAKING PEACE WITH YOUR PASTto MOVE TOWARDS A HAPPY FUTURE (stay with me, it’ll be ok)
ACCEPT what is and has been, by getting your life learnings however you have to.
Dig deep to find out what you’ve been NOT aware of about yourself. What have you been denying? You see, we do know our own answers, we just shove them down and dumb ourselves down so we can NOT face our role in our own life past, EVEN if it was an UNCONSCIOUS ROLE we played we need to own it if we are to learn from it. If it was someone elses fault then we think ‘they’ have to get learnings, not us so that’s DISempowering. We still suffer you see. If we own our choice to ‘feel’ what we felt at least, we can ‘unfeel’ it if we look through new lenses. (see our Epigenetics page).
List what you ‘feel’ from each Significant life event. Notice what these emotions are doing to you and how they effect you and what OTHER feelings they bring up, and how they link to CURRENT events (and they always do).
Go all the way back through to early childhood and mark out them most significant emotional events in your life.
Assess Your Life, honestly.
Dig for your learnings from the ‘emotions’ rather than the ‘event’. What might you have MISread to make yourself feel so terrible that you can re-interpret to mean something different, something empowering to YOU. (stop the blame of anything and anyone before doing this process)
For example:- If you were hurt by the actions of a parent, your learnings COULD be:
It was THEIR interpretation and not necessarily the truth at all.
It could be THEY were treated that way and didn’t know any better so they simply did the only thing they knew to do.
They just didn’t value you and you may have misinterpreted it to mean YOU are NOT valuable just because THEY didn’t value you.
Don’t take it personally.
And so on and so on. Does that make sense?
(BTW. I know a method that takes literally minutes to draw your life learnings out of your subconscious mind as ‘undeniable ‘knowings’ as we guide you to ‘realise’ them as the TRUTH. Sounds a bit weird but hey, works as fast as clicking your fingers. You can investigate Creatrix® at http://www.instituteofwomen.com if you want)
7. Make Peace with yourself and others. I know you don’t want to hear this word most of you but FORGIVE yourself and others behaviours.
You see, forgiveness does not mean you condone their behaviour in any way shape or form and it doesn’t mean you even have to like the person. Forgiveness just means I’ll stop self-torturing myself over what this person did and set them free to have no control over my mind anymore THAT’S IT!!!!
From here you can move to where many success guru’s or coaches begin at the Take Responsibility stage and from there you can continue your journey taking BOLD and BRAVE charge of yourself, committing to owning your life fully and that includes all future choices.
Refuse to let anyone or anything sway you because now you KNOW you are valueable, have your life learnings only YOU are in control. You can’t any longer blame others, things or anything outside of yourself or else you will give up your power. Make a pledge to CAPTAIN YOUR OWN SHIP.
And the rest, well you can hang with me for the next steps or seek out a good life coach etc because the rest is about values, being true to yourself and recycling back to this FIRST STEP whenever you slip up. Try to avoid it and it’s backwards we go so REMEMBER NOW TO SET THE TIME ASIDE AND GIVE YOURSELF A CLEAN OUT.
Or get us to do it for you. Either way I wish you well on your journey to a happier and more peaceful yet successful life living your dreams.
Over time women have accumulated blanketed layers of tainted perceptions that have buried incredibly innate superpowers deep within her core that we have not only forgotten how to access or use, but we’ve long forgotten that they exist at all. When we get back in touch with what I call our girl ‘superpowers’, we cannot doubt our worth, our level of influence, or the value of our contribution, as many women do today. If ever there was a time for women to rediscover their extraordinary essence, it is NOW. It’s time to reignite our spirit.
Most women have been lulled into a false sense of security and trust that the systems of authority in areas of expertise (medical research, politics, and education etc.) will find solutions to our female health and wellness issues.
My research has uncovered that 95-99% of these ‘bodies of knowledge’ were originally philosophically perceived, formulated, measured, modeled, discovered and determined by male minds. We cannot fully ever know what it’s like to be a male just as males cannot fathom what it’s like to be female, regardless of their area of expertise or authority. We have mistakenly been waiting for something that is not possible.
In order to heal our own minds and bodies and be able to function at our best we must first accept our deeper, underlying differences, which will empower us to become proactive in finding our own solutions. This will allow us to thrive, and celebrate our essence while forging a new path for future generations to follow.
A Woman’s limbic system is much larger than males and although some similarities, it almost seems to have a separate function for each sex. For women it’s the emotional interpretation centre that instructs our hormonal (endocrine) distribution centre to function according to these perceptions. Perception (and mis-perception) affects EVERYTHING and cause stress. This is important to know as it is the reason why and how we get ourselves ‘stuck’ and have problems unique to us.
Our limbic system is designed for that of a ‘creator-being’ that can create the egg of life, develop and nurture new life within itself and continue the maternal process outside of itself through naturally organic intuition and hormonal bonding (For example, A man may not know he is a father unless told, but it’s impossible for a mother to not know she is a mother). Women are built for love, not stress. The effects of stress hormones releasing overtime inside of a female body is messing with our design and its showing up as hormonal and emotional dysfunction. Frankly, we are not built for it.
It has been perceived that a brain is a brain, a mind is a mind and an emotion is an emotion, regardless of gender. While similar, the way in which women go about creating the emotion, the processing of information and functioning biologically and intuitively, both consciously and unconsciously is the key difference. This is the secret to UNcreating our own unique problems and creating new and unique solutions.
This is why the existing male developed mindset changing processes and success and happiness strategies are just not working for females. This is why I have broken new ground by creating a Women’s Genetic Breakthrough Process, it’s been long overdue. Remove tainted perceptions that cause unnecessary stresses (even inherited ones) and you reclaim your power and your body can get back to its originally designed functionality. Your female mind can be set free along with emotions and limiting beliefs that make you feel ‘less than’, ‘not enough’ or ‘insecure’.
Let us fathom ourselves and not forfeit our own power as it really does takes one to know one. We’ve seen it, we’ve heard it, we’ve read about it everywhere….the time of the woman is NOW!
WOMEN ARE EMOTIONAL beings! This can mean when we are happy and free, our light is very bright and everyone around us is affected positively. With that energy we are ‘attractive’ from deep within which ripples outwards to be visible on the outside.
This effects those around us to the point of causing them to see their world through different lenses, therefore changing the potential of what others see as possible. This is the kind of role model and leader we ‘want’ to be and as women, there is always a level of influence we have on others, especially little humans still developing and growing and learning about life. They do what we do not what we say as you’ve no doubt realised by now.
On the flipside (yes there is always a flipside, sorry to be the breaker of bad news but it too is perspective) our emotions can wreak havoc not just on ourselves but others as well. Are you meant to feel guilty about that? NO. Are you meant to own it? YES. Is it your fault? Not necessarily. It can be many factors and for various reasons…
BUT here’s the great news:
We just don’t understand what a negative emotion is trying to tell us, or else we would listen and make choices that would help us take control and direct them properly ,rather than being led by them, sometimes into a shark-cage and in some cases we become the shark. It’s bad enough others don’t understand why we do what we do but when we ourselves don’t understand why, it adds another layer of complexity to the problem.
Another MASSIVE factor is your gender difference. Every single cell in your body is your gender so Physically, Psychologically and Hormonally you are unique female being and emotion is a part of your innate design.
The ability to control your emotions begins AFTER the removing of old patterns, limiting beliefs and pain that has been too long held inside of you. Also, getting yourself life changing ‘tools’ to keep yourself cleaned out afterwards. We all know we SHOULD break these patterns and cycles but what most don’t know is HOW to do it. Here’s the reason for our negative emotions…
The 6 POSITIVE REASONS you Feel Negative Emotions:-
1. It could be your UNCONSCIOUS MINDs way of communicating to get your attention. The stronger the emotion the more it needs your attention. One of your unconscious minds jobs is to keep you safe, protected and in sync with your own higher good. It’s a signal so take time to listen. What have you been doing that brings on the feelings? What is the trigger?
2. It’s that time of the month (wait a week if still happening it can be one of the following…). There’s a beautiful symphony of goings-ons behind the scenes inside of you at any one time. We spend a lot of time educating women in this area, because many parts of us are linked up by nature we should at least get educated on what directly effects our lives. Did you know that hazy-brain time of the month co-incides with your cycle and your ‘sharp as a tack’ stage also is virtually predictable. The emotional aspects and how to control them have never been taught to us, until NOW.. Imagine all teens knowing about this… The girls won’t think they are going nuts and unpredictable and we could teach the boys this also so they understand why females do what they do too.
3. A sign to STOP, Assess and make a Decision. Too often in life we avoid making decisions so we are causing ourselves to keep feeling bad. We perceive there is no choice when there is almost always choice however to see it you can need help getting out of your own way to see the trees clearly and not the whole forest.
IF IT PERSISTS beyond the top 3 it might be:
4. Your intuition is telling you something so come out of denial. (Change MUST happen for it to stop) Its very likely yelling at you to WAKE UP and deal with ‘stuff’ and pull your head out of the sand.
5. Suppressed Emotion surfacing that was buried so deep your unconscious mind, for whatever reason, thinks now is a good time for you to deal with it before you get sick. In this case you need to get your life learning’s to make it stop (The uniquely female minded process called CREATRIX® does just that). Then you can get back to healthy mind and body…
6. Not living in alignment to your highest values. This also requires change or decisions.
Please don’t dismiss your negative emotions and especially don’t learn to COPE WITH THEM. The definition of ‘cope’ means to not even try to get rid of them but to actually push them down and pretend they don’t exist and ‘get by’ with them. This causes the suppression of emotions that fester inside of you.
There is no HOPE in that approach when nowadays there are processes that really do WORK and long term as well. There really is a solution now, regardless of whatever past experience you’ve had with other processes. You NEVER give up the fight to be happy and let go of the ACCUMULATED poisonous emotions. You face them head on, own them, deal with them, get the life learnings from them, let go and then move forward.
How well are you doing the process of stabilising your emotions because it’s worth addressing. Your children or those who look up to you will do what you are doing and how you are doing it. Get rid of them from your system for more than just your own reasons.
You see, if you think you see a snake on a path in front of you or whether there is a real snake, your body reacts PHYSICALLY the EXACT same way.
The same amount of stress hormones (blend of up to 1200 of them) and adrenaline courses through your veins in an instant, bathing every single cell in your body, so therefore what you perceive through your invisible mind that you turn into emotion, DOES DEFINITELY AFFECT YOU PHYSICALLY.
That in itself is enough reason to get help and get it over with, so you can effectively navigate with the future negative emotions helping guide you. Don’t hate your negative emotions, they are a part of you. It’s just the language your body uses to talk to you and guide you. It’s your navigational life GPS when you know how it works.
This could be you very soon:-
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Some women suffer more adversity and have more life challenges and obstacles to overcome than others. Why is that? Is it bad luck? Is it the law of attraction? (better bloody not be I hear some of you say because that’s just stupid considering some of the hideous acts, unjust events and horrendous things that happen in life) Is it because you deserve it? (Not my words, some people actually tell me they think that) Is it because it’s your lot in life? Is it because of something you were told as a child?
Well all I can say is that if it wasn’t bad luck for me to be a 3rd generation domestic violence sufferer (each with guns involved), a 2nd generation childhood sexual abuse (my daughters were the 3rd), rape, single mum living in hiding with 4 small kids on my own, cyclic doomed relationships etc, then what was it about ME? It’s hard not to think like that. Obviously it ran deeper than being just about me but I’ll refer to that reason later.
Some people are way ‘unluckier’ than I was and it breaks my heart. Will we ever know why bad things happen to good people? I doubt it, but all we can do is share our learnings so others may not have to suffer like we did. Do you agree? The positive to come out of any of life curve balls would have to be the life ‘learnings’, if we’ve been in the right head space to get them of course. I wonder what yours are? Have you ever taken stock of them?
I remember dragging myself to a psychiatrist several times during my life, however the time I went to see this one in particular was when I’d been living in hiding for almost a year. I remember as I sat in his office, after soaking many tissues and spilling my guts all he had to say was, you’re not going mad, everything makes sense for what you are going through. Well, that was NOT what I wanted to hear. I wanted to hear you ARE going mad and we will help you now and you can go to sleep and realise it was all just a bad dream. Instead I had to simply walk out and go pick the kids up from school and live another unpredictable terrifying day.
Some of the things I went through are too horrific to discuss here however I will say that my suffering was not in vain. In fact it’s made me so strong I now know nothing can take me down.
If I didn’t eventually DECIDE to turn my life around, take stock of my learnings and refuse to continue the cycle (even if it did take me 30 years) the Institute of Women International would not exist. A cosmetic company would have missed out on at least $30,000,000 (that’s a lot of lipstick for someone who never used to wear it) in sales. I wouldn’t have written a book. I wouldn’t have been able to fund some of my children’s important milestones and travel overseas several times a year for 14 years. I wouldn’t be able to donate to charities as I like to do. The thousands of women I now know I would never have met.
In fact, its bloody scary to think where I would be. ‘Dead’ would not be an underestimation and quite probable. I was spiralling pretty badly in the end. My cycle was out of control and heading down a very steep slope FAST.
You see I found myself on the floor of a phone box in the middle of nowhere and when I sat up and looked outside over the bonnet of my car and headlights, through the windscreen I saw 4 little kids and a dog playing and I knew, in that super silent moment that life HAD TO CHANGE.
Finally I saw my life like never before. The raw truth of my accumulated life choices were staring back at me. You see after you have an epileptic fit (that was my first one ever at 30+ years old) there is this total silence where you are without your fears, emotions, beliefs, misty stained glasses of disillusion or even your wits. What was with me was just love and quiet. Pure love and in that blessed moment I knew there was no turning back EVER from the silent vow I made to myself, or what would come of my kids? They never asked for this crap. That decision was set in concrete and that was that. I WOULD CHANGE OUR LIVES FOR THE BETTER!!!!
What I learnt FIRST and foremost and I know HAS TO HAPPEN for anyone to turn their life around is to make a ‘no option’ commitment to yourself that you will DO WHATEVER IT TAKES to make life better. That was definitely THE FIRST STEP IN A FORWARD DIRECTION for us.
Thats not easy as some of you will attest to. In fact life did get worse after than BUT as I lay there in the foetal position, feeling crushed yet again, I still knew I would not go back to my old ways. I lay crying, praying I guess you’d call it. I was simply asking out loud through my tears for an ‘opportunity’. I pleaded into the nights for about a week. My prayers were answered. Was the opportunity at the time obvious? NO! Did I seize every opportunity? YES! I become bolder and put myself out there.
Wind my life 20 years forward and I have to say I have never gone backwards from that moment.
So what did it take? Well, it’s taken the commitment mostly along with educating myself on how my mind was holding me back and how to not allow that to happen by me taking over and knowing when it was just tricking me, or recognising when it was just an old habit trying to come back. There’s always a ‘test’ after a commitment and even that’s not real, its just a play from the unconscious mind.
so why 30+ years of pretty severely bad s$%T of a similar nature and then 18 years of a blessed life that has its ups and downs and losses and all sorts of things happen, however never have I gone back in financial abundance or contentment. My desire to empower other women was born from my adversity. What will be born of yours? Could your purpose lie in the learnings that stem from your adversity too? Often people find their life purpose hidden more in their struggles than their triumphs.
Bad luck does tend to follow pessimism and feeling hopelessness in plague proportions. Whenever I get pessimistic where I’m asking problem-based questions (eg. Why me? Why now?) that have no answers and not solution-orientated ones (eg. what can I do to improve this?), I feel myself slipping back. That’s when I know I have to snap out of it or it will begin the cycle again. I wake up again. HOPE comes from empowering yourself with the facts without emotion. You made it this far and you’re ok. Why think you won’t make it all the way and be ok?
We’ll never know why bad stuff happens that is tragic, and frankly I don’t think we will, however to be strong and to roll with the really bad stuff that can happen in life, it takes developing your mental muscles, being able to self talk yourself out of the darkness. It takes knowing it won’t last and that you WILL be ok. Self development, self growth and self understanding HAS to happen for life to change.
To make new choices takes a NEW mindset.
It takes understanding how your own mind works. I personally have spend tens of thousands of dollars just learning how my mind works and it’s made me much more money in return and will continue to for my entire life. AND most of all I am happier, healthier (no more epilepsy), gave up smoking and lost weight to name just a few other benefits.
Don’t be afraid to put yourself first and invest in your personal self development and improvement. I see now in hindsight that the reason for my old life story to be worth anything at all, my learnings have to be passed on. I cannot sit idly by and watch women not take action to better themselves when they are so miserable or struggling because of silly beliefs about themselves.
Challenges are a part of life, however, the cyclic nature of similar types of events or ones that make you feel in a similar state (mine was rejection and fear mainly as well as many more), you DO have way more power over than you give yourself credit for. Did you know we even inherit a pre-disposition for certain experiences to occur? Yes it’s true according to the science of epi-genetics. In fact there’s an epigenetic university near you they are that common however they intend to find a pharmaceutical solution. Take matters into your own hands ladies and experience some of our solutions to this.
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Why not share YOUR life learnings in the comments below that you’ve had over the years, especially the first biggest ones that caused you to change your ways and find more happiness. Anything that you realised that made you have less bad experiences in a certain area of your life.