I Did It For My Daughter and Those I Want To Help (Video)

I Did It For My Daughter and Those I Want To Help (Video)

This is a before and after of a woman who was a highly paid engineer with a sound career however she felt called to help others, particularly mothers.

She knew to do that she’d have to get rid of her own ‘stuff’ and so she did whilst also qualifying as an empowerment facilitator with IOWI.

“I had to get myself right so I could be the best help to others” she said. Irina now helps others to break free.

You can too. Where else can you get qualified and release your stuff in just 1 week. Yes lifelong emotional baggage gone. The ripple effect of Irina’s breakthrough and qualification means she is a calmer and happier mother to her daughter Kira and can even teach Kira techniques so she doesn’t end up with emotional baggage therefore having a great chance at a happy well-balanced life.

Find out more about our Level 1 – Life Experience Course

I wanted to change my life, but I didn’t know there was any way out…

I wanted to change my life, but I didn’t know there was any way out…

Hi – Maz here. I was interviewed on 90.3 ABC Sunshine Coast Radio last week to share my story of escaping domestic abuse. I wanted to share with you a portion of the interview and give you a link so that you can listen to the interview in its entirety.

My mother was the role of “victim” and my father was the role of “abuser”. They were my role models. As a child, that’s all you know.

Witnessing every Friday night domestic violence involving alcohol and guns. That become normal. For me, myself, I was being sexually abused by other men. Abused, unwanted, unloved as a child by my father who was my male role model.

Why is it so hard to escape a domestic violence situation?

When you are in it, the cloud, the gloom, the doom, the secrecy, the shame – everything locks you in to think there’s no choice. You haven’t had roll models to show you that there are. You feel very alone, even when you tell people. There’s a lot more help available now.

People need to know that there is hope. There are choices, it’s just that you can’t see it when you’re in it. You have to have faith that people have come through it. They have made it to the other side and they have broken that cycle. They created a new cycle and that is possible.

A horrible statistic – more than one woman per week is killed by their partner in Australia. We don’t hear about it. It doesn’t make the daily news.

Women need a different approach from men. Most self-development books originate from a male’s perception. Women can’t action it because of the emotional overwhelm and the turmoil inside is a little bit more. We’re not that logical.

I’ve spent 18 years now researching and learning skills and techniques so that they can make their breakthrough so that they can change their lives.

If you are in a cycle of abuse, I want you to know there IS a way out.

End the cycle of abuse now.

I welcome you to listen to my story:

How Success REALLY Happens (Video)

How Success REALLY Happens (Video)

Success is no accident! You cannot stay at the same level in emotional intelligence and mindset and expect to grow a business. Especially for women!!! As emotional creatures with innate fears we will kill our chances otherwise.

You TOO can have success when you realise it’s an inner growth journey FIRST, not an external growth. It starts with building YOU up on the INSIDE so you can do the process of creating success for yourself.

It’s a self-development journey or else you WILL sabotage your chances of success. You cannot stay at the same level in emotional intelligence and mindset and expect to grow a business.

Watch this video. Then ask yourself… Are you ready?

Live Your Calling – What on Earth Am I Here For? (Video)

Live Your Calling – What on Earth Am I Here For? (Video)

Need some inspiration? Find it right here with these powerful women…

Find inspiration from Oprah Winfrey, J.K. Rowling, Beyonce, Adele, Aung San Suu Kyi and more… WATCH NOW!

From the video:

“When Life Hits You Hard, Hit Back Harder”

“While most are dreaming of success, winners wake up and work hard to achieve it.”

“If you feel like giving up, look back on how far you’ve reached already.”

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Alex Carried Guilt and Grief for 7 Years but then

Alex Carried Guilt and Grief for 7 Years but then

AlexI would like to share something that’s very close to my heart and my personal story. I can’t begin to express how grateful and over joyed I am a present! As most of you know I have begun my journey with a very exciting business venture. And it’s because of this very unique and very special process that I was able to let go of Shame, embarrassment and pride to share it with you.
From the word go……every experience we are exposed to begins and continues to mould the people we become. Those experience impact us in either positive or negative ways, over time and from a very early age we start to develop our belief systems, our own personal take on life, our perceptions on the world around us and very importantly our perceptions on ourselves. During this time we start to collect baggage and put up walls to protect ourselves, because with each hurtful situation we feel heavier and more protective of our hearts.
For myself personally, I have encountered a number of situations that left me feeling vulnerable and traumatised. I have been the victim of sexual predators, i have been in an emotionally and mentally abusive relationship, my best friend passed away well and truly before her time, I’ve lost a business, I’ve lost a house, I’ve had a very bruised ego, all kinds of every day experiences that took it’s toll leaving me feeling stripped and finally the mothership of all heart aches……being told our first born of 34 weeks was not going to survive the birth and would have a severe disability. This was the point where a part of me died and my heart had been broken in a way that I never thought possible. The guilt and grief I carried for nearly 7 years after his birth was well hidden but very raw.
Now my story might seem terrible to you or maybe your story is a lot worse then mine or maybe you have lived a very blessed life.
Either way the reason for me sharing this, is to show women that no matter where you are at in life, how much baggage you carry or what experiences you have encountered (being from a broken heart, extreme trauma, not having confidence in yourself, lacking self worth and anything else in between).
There is a very real and incredible solution to empower you and help you to be the best version of yourselves. My heart no longer feels heavy……it now sings with joy, my guilt and grief no longer weigh heavily on my shoulders…..I can now fully appreciate the gift my son is without the trauma attracted, my anger and frustration has melted away……allowing me to feel so much more in control (and yes I still yell at the kids because I’m still human hahaha) my worry, stress and fear…..is replaced with peace. Never before in my life have I ever felt so calm, so emotionally clean, light and peaceful!!!!
What you have created Marylin Schirmer is truly incredible and a gift every women should experience. I cant even begin to express how truly grateful I am and how very excited I am to be apart of it. I have gone from a incredibly highly strung worrier…… To an “almost” too relaxed woman with a new purpose and passion in life. My growth and personal development has not yet finished, it never will end…..because with each day and each year that goes by we are alway changing and moving with the flow of life. Nothing can ever stay the same…..we can either choose to learn from it and grow as a person or continue to feel stuck, never really moving forward.
I have taken part in other programs to help me move through my issues, however nothing really stuck. I had improvements but nothing soul shaking….. Not until NOW!!! If you are interested in learning more go to Maz’s website http://www.instituteofwomen.com she is the founder of this incredibly process. After June I will be qualified to change lives just as Maz has changed mine and how honoured I feel being apart of it. (FYI Maz’s personal story is worth a read…. Her life was very colourful!! And she over came some mind blowing situations.) she is living proof that you are capable of anything. Bless you Maz….you totally rock!! Xxx

How to Overcome Procrastination and Achieve Your Goals

How to Overcome Procrastination and Achieve Your Goals

motivationPicture this… you are feeling rather tired, bored and lazy. You definitely couldn’t muster the energy to mop the floor. BUT what if I told you I would pay you $100,000 if you got up and did it now? Or I said I would take your most prized possession from you forever if it wasn’t done in the next hour? You would find the energy to mop the floor, right?

Every one of us has motivation and untapped energy inside us; we just need to know how to turn it on.

When we are born, we have everything we need to be installed to be massively successful in everything we do. Over time however with negative life experiences, we sometimes lose how to turn it on until the moment we need it to just keep breathing. Your talking and thinking patterns affect your motivation. They can get you out of procrastination mode or cause it to grow.

The main reason we procrastinate is when our inner ‘values’ (what is important to you) conflict with what you are trying to achieve.

This is recognisable by words such as ‘can’t’, ‘don’t’, ‘must’, ‘should’, ‘have to’ or ‘need’.

The uses of such words are powerful sabotages to our motivation; they leave us feeling bad and can shift us into procrastination mode. When your core values feel threatened, your unconscious mind (the part of you that stores the outcomes/emotions of past experiences; that allows you to drive your car automatically without conscious thought) steps in to protect you until the perceived threat is gone. Sometimes this sabotages the positive outcomes that would come from taking action.

Procrastination usually occurs when we subscribe to the ‘pain out-ways the pleasure’ syndrome. You may tell yourself that you really want a beautifully mopped floor but then your unconscious mind will try to protect by telling you that you are tired, that you can’t find the energy to get up. In this syndrome we find ‘excuses’ (oops I mean reasons) to not take action.

However when we are passionately and happily working towards something that is aligned with our values, the unconscious mind provides motivation from the inspiration seen in the positive outcome of every action we take. So getting back to our floor, what’s more important to you? What if you said to yourself ‘I may as well do it while you I am up’ or ‘I want to get fit and exercise so I might do it dancing to my favourite dance music and loud too, I love dancing’. Would that make you feel a little difference? Perhaps even a tad more motivated?

Language is Powerful!

Let me give you another example. You have decided to start an exercise program. Perhaps it is just that your clothes are getting too tight or you ‘don’t want to be fat anymore’. These are called ‘away from’ motivations because they cause a mind image of something you are trying to get ‘away from’. If the ‘value’ of health is not a priority for you, you won’t get motivated. You will however feel bad because you keep reminding yourself of what you currently have, what you don’t want and haven’t done.

What about if you wanted to start the exercise for instance to run a marathon instead? I bet that person you see jogging at the crack of dawn in your street would become a positive motivator for you as it would bring images of you successfully running your marathon.

Your unconscious mind would then create health as a high and positive value; it would attach your positive emotions to the image that you are seeing. Suddenly you are motivated! Procrastination to partake in exercise occurs when an ‘away from’ focus is created through self-talk such as ‘I NEED to LOSE weight’. The poor old unconscious mind doesn’t hear the words that don’t have pictures such as ‘lose’ and ‘need’ and does hear the words ‘weight’ or ‘fat’ because they are easily pictures of a weighty or fat body. This burns a negative picture of your current size into your mind causing frustration and disappointed feelings” that get attached to the ‘value’ and so you now have a cycle of getting fatter and yoyo dieting.

(Ask me, I used to be a lifetime member of weight watchers and also sureslim. In fact I was 30kgs heavier than when I began ‘diets’)

This definitely won’t help you to get up at the crack of dawn to run or walk. Your unconscious mind likes to have a positive reason (or a desperate one, yes negative motivates but never permanently, but temporarily like the threat of death from illness) to achieve something if it is to create a positive mind picture and subsequently the motivation when needed. A ‘towards’ reason creates a beautiful picture of the fit, thin, healthy you running, causing you to feel excited, energised and happy. The ‘away from’ reason picture shows you being overweight or bulging out of tight clothing, causing you to feel frustrated and disappointed or any number of negative emotions such as shame, embarrassment, guilt, sadness, depression which in turn keeps the cycle alive.

‘Away from’ motivation may work for the short term and sometimes we need that shock treatment, butit’s only powerful to get you started in most cases however occasionally I’ve seen it turn into positive emotions and mind images. eg. Heart attack client goes out to get fit to recover and ‘avoid’ another heart attack and falls in love with fitness. Have you ever seen that before? That’s very encouraging but it’s sadly not often enough for most of what the everyday person procrastinates. I have yet to see it work long-term if you don’t get success that you appreciate and value and if necessary have ‘dealt with’ the old emotions (if any) then new positive images are created through ‘DOING’ the work.

Eventually when tempted by a delicious looking vanilla slice, the negative image may have you saying ‘I am fat anyway so one slice doesn’t matter’ or ‘I will start again tomorrow’ which may never come. So to overcome this, sell yourself on the value of health and make sure it is a ‘towards’ value by writing out up to 200 towards reasons. The motivation of ‘health’ is better than the ‘away from’ motivation of need to exercise to NOT be fat. There are fast techniques that change your mind image in an instant and they are easy to learn. We teach them here at IOWI and will show you an exercise YOU can start doing right away.

I bet that regardless of how many failed attempts you may have made to lose weight; if your loved one suddenly got ill and needed something from you to survive but the doctors refused to operate until you lost 25 kilograms, I have no doubt that you would suddenly get very motivated and just do it. Do you know how many times I have watched business people only do something under threat, when it is do-or-die time; like making calls or doing the paper work.

In our personal lives we do it with bills. We wait until they are due and then say we cannot afford them. The truth is, we didn’t budget or think ahead because it not only was ‘away from’, there were other ‘away from’s’ inline first. The value of paying that bill was low our list and had a very ‘away from’ motivation picture attached to it. What if the value of the power bill was in fact appreciated because without it you would live a very different life? What if instead we paid a little (like $20) towards it each week? Imagine how exciting it would be to open your bill and see a credit. So now we have learned the how, why and when procrastination occurs now it’s time to learn the what.

What can you do about it to get started? TRY THIS…

Speak to yourself OUT LOUD (if you are wondering what to say, it’s just usually the opposite of what you have been saying that’s made you procrastinate) to create positive mind images, then DO what you are procrastinating about.

Start by challenging your beliefs about whatever area of life you want better results with. Take your stubborn beliefs to someone who is currently motivated to move forward. Ask them what they are doing and take them at their word. Ask them what they say to themselves just BEFORE they get up and do that thing.

Ridding procrastination is not the time to focus on being ‘right’. Who cares if you are anyway? Believe what you must to achieve what you want to accomplish. You will still get to be right in the end. You will also get what you have been looking for and maybe along the way found something you never knew you wanted.

Wouldn’t it be better to be right and happy than to be right and miserable? Remember that if the unconscious mind’s imagery is not bright and positive, it continues to attract more of the same. This is a cycle that we unconsciously create so by doing the opposite we can create a new brighter cycle. So let me leave you with this.

Nothing that happens to us has predetermined meaning!

The ‘meaning’ we choose to apply to an event (for whatever reason) or situation is what determines whether we are happy or sad, make good decisions or bad decisions, have a good day or a bad day or feel powerful or weak. The way your life goes and the power you have depends on how you apply meaning to an event or situation. Let me repeat this: Your power lies in how you point meaning to everything in your life. There really is no reason to stay stuck. Life’s too short to allow the self-sabotage and procrastination to continue. Part 3 of my book called ‘The MAZ Factor’ is called ‘Ignite the A.MA.Z.I.N.G. Factor in YOU’ has great do it yourself strategies or get help with someone who knows these advanced strategies for changing mind images automatically in an instant. We use our E.Q.U.I.P. processes so you can use them any time you want.

For info on our retreats (level 1 course) where we get rid of your old ‘baggage’, empty your head from your doubts and teach you to correct your own mind images for ever more in the future, click here.